The Story of ‘Not Like Us’ (2025)

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From “The New York Times,” this is “The Daily.” I’m Natalie Kitroeff.

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Today, we’re taking a break from the battles unfolding in Washington to talk about another battle that’s been dominating the world of music. It’s a fight between two major artists over one song. And that fight and that song may get their biggest stage ever at this weekend’s Super Bowl. My colleague, Joe Coscarelli, explains how a diss track ripped the music world apart and why so many of us fell in love with a song about hate.

It’s Friday, February 7.

Joe, hi. Welcome back to the show.

Hey, Natalie. Thanks so much for having me.

This weekend is obviously the Super Bowl. And while I very specifically will be watching to see my Philadelphia Eagles play — go, Birds — a lot of people will be tuning in to watch Kendrick Lamar perform at halftime and not necessarily to hear him play his greatest hits, but to hear one song in particular. Let’s talk about that song.

So Kendrick Lamar is one of the biggest rappers in the world, both now and for the past decade. He’s the first rapper to ever headline the Super Bowl solo. I think that’s worth noting.

But you’re right. One big reason he’s at the Super Bowl this year is because of the enormous popularity of one song that he put out last year called “Not Like Us.” “Not Like Us” was a number one hit. It is quickly on its way to becoming Kendrick’s most popular and maybe defining song, and that’s pretty weird.

Why? Say more about that.

So this is a diss track, which is fairly normal in rap music. Two rappers, they square off and rap about how they’re better than one another and who’s richer and more popular. But diss tracks don’t typically become pop hits and especially diss tracks as venomous as this one, in which Kendrick is calling Drake, another rapper, a big fake, a total user of other people, and most specifically, a pedophile.

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And not only is he saying these horrible things about another artist by name, but that other artist is Drake, probably the most popular rapper, if not pop star, of the last decade. And all of this has led to probably the most unusual lawsuit in the history of music.

OK, I’m going to ask you to just take us on a little daily style journey here to explain how the world fell in love with this song, which ends up both in court and at the halftime show of the Super Bowl.

Well, I think you have to start with these two artists — who they are, where they came from, and what they’ve come to represent.

Let’s do that. Tell me about them.

Drake is one of the unlikeliest rap stars of all time. He’s from Toronto. He’s Jewish, biracial. He was a child actor in the show “Degrassi.”

He seamlessly blended rapping and singing in a way that very few artists before him had ever done before.

And he’s one of the great hitmakers of all time.

He compares himself very often to Michael Jackson. He has more than 300 entries on the “Billboard” singles chart. Like, no other artist besides Taylor Swift even has 200. He’s basically the blueprint for a modern day star, and he has a really long history of beefs.

Fairly regularly, he’s squaring off with somebody in hip-hop who is challenging his primacy. It’s kind of his thing that he’s willing to get down and dirty and fight with people who are not necessarily on his level.

Hmm.

Kendrick, on the other hand, is a bit more old school.

Kendrick is a very, very introspective, poetic, genre-agnostic writer. I mean, he won the Pulitzer Prize for Music in 2018, which no pop musician had ever done before.

Right, right. I mean, when I think about Kendrick, I think about a guy who’s making really deep music with complicated rhymes that make you think and feel things hard.

Yeah, and he’s been on this journey for years where he’s really looking deep within his soul and his generational and family trauma, what it means to be a Black man in America. And he’s in this lineage of great artists and storytellers, from Nina Simone and Marvin Gaye to a rapper like Nas, who was really holding it down in the late ‘90s for the writers of hip-hop, not the glossy hit makers. But unlike Drake, Kendrick’s not really one to get into these beefs. It’s not his thing.

So obviously, two huge stars, they’ve taken different paths. One’s a hitmaker. One is more of a tortured poet, if you will. When does their beef start?

So what’s really interesting is they started out as collaborators and maybe even friends. These guys come up together. Drake gives Kendrick his first hit.

“Poetic Justice” is essentially a Drake song with some Kendrick verses on them.

And Drake takes Kendrick on tour, letting him open for him. And there seems to be a bond here as two guys who are trying to remake rap music in their own image. But as they get more and more popular and end up at the same level, this symbiotic relationship, this collaborative friendship, starts to become much more of a competition.

They start mentioning each other, sometimes by name, but often more subtly in raps. And you get the sense that Drake thinks Kendrick is self-serious and pretentious, and Kendrick maybe thinks Drake is a phony. And fans are always itching for it to really explode into public view. And they’re like, is this happening? Are they really going to fight? Are they going to war, these two defining artists of this generation?

But for a long time, it was really much more of a Cold War. And that went on for many, many years until last spring, when it all explodes and gets super vicious, super fast.

OK. Let’s get into that. What did that look like?

So it started last spring with a series of songs.

Kendrick comes out of nowhere with this really aggressive guest verse on a song by future where he says —

— Drake is a way worse rapper than I am, and we shouldn’t even be mentioned in the same sentence.

He calls him a bum. Drake responds by releasing a song —

— basically daring Kendrick to come at him directly and have this big fight that’s been bubbling up for so many years.

Drake’s track is about how Kendrick is really short, has a bad record deal —

— and that Drake is richer and more successful than Kendrick could ever be.

It sounds like this starts is pretty typical rap beef stuff, standard fare. I mean, I’m a better rapper than you. I make more money than you. Par for the course in some ways.

Yeah. And Drake’s feeling so confident that this isn’t really something Kendrick does — Kendrick doesn’t come out to play in this way — that Drake is basically daring him to come back. And Drake goes so far as to release a song —

— in which he pretends to be Tupac and Snoop Dogg using AI.

These are two West Coast rap legends. These are Kendrick’s heroes. He’s from Compton, California. And Drake is rapping in their voices, daring Kendrick to come back at him.

Drake is basically trolling Kendrick, testing him even — like, are you really going to step into the ring with me?

Yeah, and this is Drake’s ring. Drake loves playing on the internet. He loves memes. He loves speaking the language of young people. Whereas Kendrick likes to float above it all. He’s riding his bike by the beach with no cell phone, only popping in every five years with a concept album. And Drake basically doesn’t think that Kendrick is ever going to take his bait. And he’s really high on that feeling that he’s going to dominate his rival on his own home turf.

But that doesn’t happen.

So Kendrick says, you want to play, we’re going to play and —

— takes the bait —

— comes back at Drake —

— with some pretty devastating psychological dissection, saying you’re not authentic. You’re a big faker, and nobody likes you. And in fact, I hate you.

[LAUGHS]: He comes right out and says it —

Wow.

— I hate you.

He just says it.

And these tracks start flying back and forth between them. It was probably the most chaotic weekend of my life as a rap fan. And as it went on, it’s just getting increasingly personal and specific.

What are they saying on these tracks? Give me some examples.

So Drake comes right out and says —

— I know you beat your girlfriend and covered it up.

Whoa.

And Kendrick comes back with a song addressed to Drake’s parents and his son —

— about how he should die because of how he treats women. These things are coming sometimes one after another. And then the knockout blow —

—“Not Like Us.”

Like everyone else, I have heard this song a lot. But why do you think it became the knockout punch? What about it was so effective.

I think it’s the combination of what it sounds like and what it’s about. It starts with this really bouncy West Coast beat. There’s these really catchy violins sampled by the producer, Mustard. And Kendrick sounds really loose, which is not something you can always say about him. He sounds like he’s having fun, but the things that he’s talking about are not fun.

What he’s doing is saying some of the most audacious stuff of this entire beef in the punchiest package, the headline of which is that he’s calling Drake a pedophile.

He says very early on in the song, they don’t treat pedophiles well in prison, so you better not ever go there. And then he culminates this first verse where he’s dropping all these bombs with a pun that is also extremely catchy. He says, hey, Drake, aren’t you tired of trolling me? You’re trying to strike a chord, and it’s probably “a minor.”

OK, where is this allegation coming from? I mean, is there any truth to it?

No, not that we know of. Drake has never credibly been accused of pedophilia or anything criminal, in fact. But Kendrick was pulling on a narrative that did exist online. Drake is a massive celebrity. And like any celebrity, there are unfounded rumors that follow him around, one of which is about his relationship to teenage girls, whether he’s too close with them. So Kendrick didn’t pull it out of nowhere. He just put a melody to something anonymous commenters online were already saying about Drake.

Kendrick did another savvy thing, which was pull on another long running thread of criticism about Drake, which is basically that he’s a big phony.

Right. This is something that has dogged Drake for much of his career.

Yeah. One of the things that’s made Drake so successful and so beloved is that he’s fluent in many, many different styles. He is very, very chameleonic. And this has been a boon for his career, but it’s also been the source of a lot of criticism, especially in rap, where authenticity is valued. So people are saying, who are you? Who is this guy? Why are you continuing to put on these different personas and these different voices? And Kendrick comes right out and says —

— you’re not a colleague, you’re a colonizer. And you’re using all of these artists, who are cooler and hipper and more real than you, and you’re taking their credibility.

And Kendrick puts it very simply in four words — they not like us. He’s saying, I’m real. Me and my friends, the guys I hang around with, the people I make music with, were true to ourselves. You, you’re on some other stuff. I don’t even know who you are.

And that chorus is partly what makes this the song of the summer, right?

Played in clubs and parties around the world — people literally screaming these lines out loud —

— screaming these accusations about Drake back to a DJ.

Yeah, this song hits the top of the “Billboard” charts. And because its chorus is so easily adaptable, this us versus them mentality, “Not Like Us” is immediately everywhere.

It’s at Kamala Harris rallies. It’s in the clubhouse when the Dodgers win the World Series.

I talked to a bar mitzvah DJ in Los Angeles, and he said there was no song last year that 13-year-olds wanted to sing and scream and mosh and dance to on the floor of their party than “Not Like Us.”

Unbelievable.

And that, to me, is just baffling when you think about the specifics of this song.

And you have to imagine that Kendrick Lamar never thought he was going to be such a star of the bar mitzvah circuit. Is it a little ironic that the thing that propelled the artist’s artist, Kendrick Lamar, to New heights was making a kind of poppy hit, maybe, it’d be fair to say, following Drake’s playbook?

Yeah, I think you could say that he took a page from Drake’s playbook, for sure. He made a diss song that was also a pop hit, which is something that basically only Drake had ever done before. And I think “Not Like Us” is received not only as a killer Drake diss, but also as an instant smash hit. There’s just no question that it wins Kendrick the beef.

But if there was any doubt remaining, that disappears when Drake takes an unprecedented step in the wake of something like this — he files a massive lawsuit.

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We’ll be right back.

Joe, tell us about this lawsuit.

So just last month, Drake formally sues Universal Music Group, which is not only the biggest record label in the world, but it’s the one that represents both Drake and Kendrick Lamar. And Drake sues the label for defamation.

Essentially, Drake’s saying Kendrick called me a pedophile. I’m not one. That’s defamatory.

Yes. They’re saying that this rap battle went beyond some artistic spat and turned very real. In the days after “Not Like Us” was released, there was a shooting outside of Drake’s house in Toronto. A security guard was seriously wounded, and the police haven’t said who did that or why. But then there was a break-in a couple of days later, and Drake says he had to pull his son out of school because of security concerns. And the lawsuit is drawing a straight line directly to the allegations of pedophilia in “Not Like Us.”

The suit is saying some of the listeners to this song really believed what was in it. They took the allegations literally and then took it upon themselves to react.

Right. The lawsuit calls it vigilante justice.

But why does Drake sue the record label and not Kendrick himself?

So I think this is a complex question, and part of it has to do with how the song was released and promoted. Drake is basically saying that the label had a huge hand in making this song not only popular, but received as fact. He’s saying that they’re the ones who pushed it to the radio, who made sure it could stream heavily on YouTube and Spotify. They’re selling it to television shows.

And the legal argument is that Universal, UMG, had the responsibility to know that these claims against Drake were not true. To prove defamation against a public figure, you not only have to prove that the information was false, but that they knew it was false. And Drake is saying UMG, this company that’s given him hundreds of millions of dollars over the years, they should have known if one of their biggest, most valuable assets was a pedophile.

Right. The argument here by Drake’s lawyers is that the label is liable because they wouldn’t have invested in this artist, theoretically, if they knew he was a criminal.

Yes.

And is that the main issue here — the question of whether the label was promoting a song they knew to be a lie?

Yeah, I think that’s what’s at the heart of this lawsuit. And Drake is saying, look, the song is one thing. But, hey, look at the cover art. The cover art is an aerial photo of my home, and it has markers on it meant to indicate the presence of sex offenders. The music video has Kendrick Lamar hopscotching, alluding to children. It has shipping containers, which people associate with victims of sex trafficking — that Kendrick and the label were underlining the fact that this was not just a joke, that these claims were very serious.

Drake’s lawsuit is making one more critical argument, which is that the label was incentivized to devalue him at this exact moment. They knew, he says, that his contract was almost up for renegotiation and that if they promoted a Kendrick Lamar song that chipped away at Drake’s success and his persona, that it would be easier to sign him again for less money.

And what does that label, UMG, say to all this?

UMG says that not only is all of this untrue, but why would we want to hurt one of our most valuable artists? They call it illogical. They say Drake has been in many rap battles, and we’ve put out his songs and promoted them heavily. They’re saying he does this all the time, that UMG distributes his music in which he says outrageous things about other people and expresses his own feelings about other artists. They say he’s now seeking to weaponize the legal process to silence an artist’s creative expression.

Yeah. I’ve been thinking about this this whole time, Joe. The whole point of a rap battle is for people to be insulting each other. And obviously, sometimes that includes saying really horrible things. How beyond the pale is the pedophilia accusation, just relatively speaking?

Rap beefs in the past have gotten super nasty, but I think listeners have started to take them more literally. And Drake’s lawyers are essentially saying that pedophilia is a red line, that it is a cultural dog whistle that means something very specific. And it’s not part of the hyperbole that we usually get in rap songs.

They gave me this new statement, and they say that UMG is hiding behind calling its actions entertainment, but that there’s nothing entertaining about pedophilia or child abuse. They’re saying that when people hear those words and those accusations, they take them seriously, and they take them literally?

Do we know how likely it is that Drake will actually prevail in this suit?

I don’t think this is a slam dunk for either side. There’s a lot of leeway for Kendrick and UMG to say, hey, this is just rap. But I have talked to people in the industry who think this is a real case. And Drake is being represented here by a real heavyweight, the lawyer, Michael Gottlieb, behind this lawsuit, he’s won some huge defamation cases against Rudy Giuliani, for instance.

He also repped the restaurant in Pizzagate that was shot up by somebody who believed there was pedophilia happening in the basement because of unfounded online rumors. He’s won some enormous cases on this very subject. And if that winning streak continues, Drake could be seeing a huge financial payout.

But, Joe, even if he comes out on top legally, where does this leave his reputation as a rapper? Rap beefs don’t typically end with “you’re going to hear from my lawyer.”

Yeah. Look, I think a lot of people take this as confirmation that Drake is soft, and Drake is weak. And I don’t know how you come back from that as a rapper. I think this is something that’s going to follow him around for a long time and is very damaging to his reputation, especially as any sort of untouchable tough guy.

So the lawsuit, actually, as much as the song itself, is the real knockout blow in all of this?

Yeah, for sure. And in the meantime, Kendrick just can’t stop winning. He put out a new album that builds off of the fighting spirit of “Not Like Us.” It went number one. He’s had multiple other hits. And just this past weekend at the Grammys —

“Not Like Us” was nominated for five Grammys, and it won them all — song of the year, record of the year, best rap song, best music video, best rap performance.

And it’s probably A minor

Yeah, one of the things that struck me watching the Grammys was how everyone was dancing to the song — Taylor Swift, Beyoncé — and it looked like they were having a lot of fun. I mean, the viciousness of it, the kind of darkness of the song, it just seemed like that disappeared. The baggage wasn’t there.

Yeah. Look, I was stunned. I mean, there’s a shot on TV of Lucian Grainge, the CEO of Universal Music Group, high fiving Doctor Dre, Kendrick’s mentor, while everybody’s singing along to the A minor line.

And what do you make of that?

I think there’s a lot of layers to it. I think people love Kendrick Lamar. I think “Not Like Us” can be a really fun song for people to listen to. But I also think there’s some pent up frustration with just how dominant and Teflon Drake had been for so long. I think there’s some vindication to this moment where this guy, who was so untouchable, was humbled. And he was humbled by an artist who kept to himself and who was beating the drum for authenticity and truth and realness in a way that people always were a little suspicious of with Drake.

And now we have another opportunity to potentially see this play out again at the Super Bowl.

Yeah. I think it’s a really huge question for Kendrick Lamar. Do you take the biggest stage known to man — 100 million people watching all around the world — and again celebrate the downfall of your nemesis? Are we going to collectively, as an American people, dance on the grave of Drake one more time? Is “Not Like Us” going to be the centerpiece of this halftime show? Or will he leave it to the side and say, let’s move on.

But I think people are really pulling for this song. Like, they want to hear it on the Super Bowl stage. And I think that speaks to how catchy the song is and how it’s sort of wormed its way into culture. And people really relate to its message, even if they don’t hate Drake. But I don’t think you can ignore the part of it that appeals to a sort of very American bloodlust. There’s this sense of loving violence and winning and rooting for someone’s demise. I think that says a lot about us as a culture, probably more than it says about Kendrick.

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What you’re saying, Joe, is that at the end of the day, yes, this is a great song. It is singable. It is an earworm. It is sticky. But maybe, also, we just love to hate.

Yeah. Look, celebrities are built up to be torn down all of the time. We get sick of people. We like to see them humbled. The only thing we love more than watching a rise is watching someone’s downfall.

Joe, Thank you so much.

Thanks for having me.

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We’ll be right back.

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Today’s episode was produced by Sydney Harper, Will Reid, Michael Simon Johnson, and Stella Tan. It was edited by Brendan Klinkenberg and Mike Benoist, fact checked by Susan Lee, contains original music by Rowan Niemisto and Elisheba Ittoop, and was engineered by Alyssa Moxley. Our theme music is by Jim Brunberg and Ben Landsverk of Wonderly.

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That’s it for “The Daily.” I’m Natalie Kitroeff. See you Monday.